This whole flower language started in Constantinople in the 1600s, and was brought to England in 1716 by Lady Mary Wortley Montagu who had spent time in Turkey with her husband. The interest then moved to France (of course) where the Book 'Le Langage des Fleurs' was printed with over 800 floral signs. Many were toned down in the English translation at the time of Queen Victoria because they were quite lusty and risque!Here are a few "nice" ones!
White rosebud | Heart ignorant of love |
Crocus | Abuse not |
Rhubarb | advice |
Indian jasmine | attachment |
Holly | Am I forgotten |
Deep red carnation | Alas! for my poor heart |
Deep red rose | bashful shame |
Full red rose | beauty |
Burgendy rose | unconscious beauty (hmm?) |
Unique rose | call me not beautiful |
Turnip | charity |
Chrysanthemum | cheerfulness in old age |
Buttercup | childishness |
Great yellow daffodil | chivalry |
Lettuce | coldheartedness |
Moss rosebud | confession of love |
Red poppy | consolation |
Red tulip | declaration of love |
yellow rose | decrease of love, jealousy |
Mistletoe | difficulties, I surmount |
Yellow carnation | rue, distain |
Thornless rose | early attachment |
Anemone | expectation |
Scarlet poppy | extravagance, fantastic |
Blue violet | faithfulness |
Purple lilac | first emotions of love |
Forget-me-not | ditto |
Damask rose | freshness |
White rose | I am worthy of you |
Peach blossom | I am your captive |
Iris | I have a message for you |
White daisy | innocence |
Dandelion | love's oracle |
Lotus flower | estranged love |
Ivy | marriage |
Provence rose | my heart is in flames |
yellow iris | passion |
Dog rose | pleasure and pain |
Christmas rose | relieve my anxiety |
Filbert | reconciliation |
Spanish jasmine | sensuality |
Peony | shame |
White poppy | sleep |
Yellow chrysanthemum | slighted love |
Amarylis | splendid beauty |
Honeyflower | sweet and secret love |
Pansy | thoughts |
Zinnia | thoughts of absent friends |
Forget-me-not | also means true love |
White and red rose | unity |
Parsley | useful knowledge |
Pink carnation | woman's love |
lady slipper | win me and wear me (Hmm, OK..) |
Marigold | vulger minded |
Rosemary | your presence revives me |
Ice plant | your looks freeze me |
If a flower is offered ``reversed'', its direct signification is likewise reversed, so that the flower now means the opposite.
A rosebud divested of its thorns, but retaining its leaves, convays the sentiment, ``I fear no longer; I hope.''
Stripped of leaves and thorns, it signifies, ``There is nothing to hope or fear.''
A full-blown rose places over two buds, signifies ``Secrecy.''
``Yes,'' is implied by touching the flower given to the lips; ``No,'' by pinching off a petal and casting it away.
``I am,'' is expressed by a laurel leaf twined arround the bouquet; ``I have,'' by an ivy leaf folded together; ``I offer you,'' by a leaf of Virginia creeper.